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Signs and Characteristics of Love Addiction:
•Lack of nurturing and attention when young
•Feeling isolated, detached from parents and family
•Compartmentalization of relationships from other areas of life
•Outer facade of “having it all together” to hide internal disintegration
•Mistake intensity for intimacy (drama driven relationships)
•Hidden Pain
•Seek to avoid rejection and abandonment at any cost
•Afraid to trust anyone in a relationship
•Inner rage over lack of nurturing, early abandonment
•Depressed
•Highly manipulative and controlling of others
•Perceive attraction, attachment, and sex as basic human needs, on a par with food and water
•Sense of worthlessness without a relationship or partner
•Feelings that a relationship makes one whole, or more of a man or woman
•Escalating tolerance for high-risk behavior
•Intense need to control self, others, circumstances
•Presence of other addictive or compulsive problems
•Insatiable appetite in area of difficulty (sex, love or attachment / need.)
•Using others, sex & relationships to alter mood or relieve emotional pain
•Continual questioning of values and lifestyle
•Driven, desperate, frantic personality
•Confusion of sexual attraction with love (“Love” at first sight.)
•Tendency to trade sexual activity for “love” or attachment
•Existence of a secret “double life”
•Refusal to acknowledge existence of problem
•Defining out-of-control behavior as normal
•Defining “wants” as “needs”
•Tendency to leave one relationship for another. (Inability to be without a relationship.)
•Attempts to replace lost relationships with a new one immediately
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